{"id":4240,"date":"2020-02-06T18:37:08","date_gmt":"2020-02-06T09:37:08","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/old2024.onfire.jp\/?p=4240"},"modified":"2020-02-06T18:37:11","modified_gmt":"2020-02-06T09:37:11","slug":"thriving-in-japan-vulnerability-in-developing-deep-friendships-rae-anna-and-jef-3","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/old2024.onfire.jp\/en\/blog\/thriving-in-japan-vulnerability-in-developing-deep-friendships-rae-anna-and-jef-3\/","title":{"rendered":"Thriving in Japan &#8211; Vulnerability in Developing Deep Friendships &#8211; Rae-Anna  and Jef #3"},"content":{"rendered":"<p> [\u82f1\u8a9e\u306e\u307f] Rae-Anna and Jef continue to converse about how to thrive in Japan as a  follower of Jesus with a focus on vulnerability in building  relationships.  Japan is becoming more and more of an isolated and lonely society.  <\/p><p>Recently a young lady said to me (Jef) that she has become \u201cused to life  with no-people\u201d\uff08\u4eba\u306e\u3044\u306a\u3044\u751f\u6d3b\u306b\u6163\u308c\u305f\u3002\uff09 With this in mind, as a child of God you have to develop a STRATEGY for  success in Japan, and a big part of that will be establishing good  friendships. #1 of course, is our friendship with God. But so many principles overlap with our human relationships too.  <\/p><p>This TED talk on Frientimacy is helpful to strategise how to deepen our  friendships.  https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=hmJyWreER7A <\/p><div class=\"veu_socialSet veu_socialSet-position-after veu_contentAddSection\"><script>window.twttr=(function(d,s,id){var js,fjs=d.getElementsByTagName(s)[0],t=window.twttr||{};if(d.getElementById(id))return t;js=d.createElement(s);js.id=id;js.src=\"https:\/\/platform.twitter.com\/widgets.js\";fjs.parentNode.insertBefore(js,fjs);t._e=[];t.ready=function(f){t._e.push(f);};return t;}(document,\"script\",\"twitter-wjs\"));<\/script><ul><li class=\"sb_facebook sb_icon\"><a class=\"sb_icon_inner\" href=\"\/\/www.facebook.com\/sharer.php?src=bm&u=https%3A%2F%2Fold2024.onfire.jp%2Fen%2Fblog%2Fthriving-in-japan-vulnerability-in-developing-deep-friendships-rae-anna-and-jef-3%2F&amp;t=OnfireJapan\" target=\"_blank\" onclick=\"window.open(this.href,'FBwindow','width=650,height=450,menubar=no,toolbar=no,scrollbars=yes');return false;\"><span class=\"vk_icon_w_r_sns_fb icon_sns\"><\/span><span class=\"sns_txt\">Facebook<\/span><span class=\"veu_count_sns_fb\"><\/span><\/a><\/li><li class=\"sb_x_twitter sb_icon\"><a class=\"sb_icon_inner\" href=\"\/\/twitter.com\/intent\/tweet?url=https%3A%2F%2Fold2024.onfire.jp%2Fen%2Fblog%2Fthriving-in-japan-vulnerability-in-developing-deep-friendships-rae-anna-and-jef-3%2F&amp;text=OnfireJapan\" target=\"_blank\" ><span class=\"vk_icon_w_r_sns_x_twitter icon_sns\"><\/span><span class=\"sns_txt\">X<\/span><\/a><\/li><li class=\"sb_bluesky sb_icon\"><a class=\"sb_icon_inner\" href=\"https:\/\/bsky.app\/intent\/compose?text=OnfireJapan%0Ahttps%3A%2F%2Fold2024.onfire.jp%2Fen%2Fblog%2Fthriving-in-japan-vulnerability-in-developing-deep-friendships-rae-anna-and-jef-3%2F\" target=\"_blank\" ><span class=\"vk_icon_w_r_sns_bluesky icon_sns\"><\/span><span class=\"sns_txt\">Bluesky<\/span><\/a><\/li><li class=\"sb_hatena sb_icon\"><a class=\"sb_icon_inner\" href=\"\/\/b.hatena.ne.jp\/add?mode=confirm&url=https%3A%2F%2Fold2024.onfire.jp%2Fen%2Fblog%2Fthriving-in-japan-vulnerability-in-developing-deep-friendships-rae-anna-and-jef-3%2F&amp;title=OnfireJapan\" target=\"_blank\"  onclick=\"window.open(this.href,'Hatenawindow','width=650,height=450,menubar=no,toolbar=no,scrollbars=yes');return false;\"><span class=\"vk_icon_w_r_sns_hatena icon_sns\"><\/span><span class=\"sns_txt\">Hatena<\/span><span class=\"veu_count_sns_hb\"><\/span><\/a><\/li><li class=\"sb_pocket sb_icon\"><a class=\"sb_icon_inner\"  href=\"\/\/getpocket.com\/edit?url=https%3A%2F%2Fold2024.onfire.jp%2Fen%2Fblog%2Fthriving-in-japan-vulnerability-in-developing-deep-friendships-rae-anna-and-jef-3%2F&title=OnfireJapan\" target=\"_blank\"  onclick=\"window.open(this.href,'Pokcetwindow','width=650,height=450,menubar=no,toolbar=no,scrollbars=yes');return false;\"><span class=\"vk_icon_w_r_sns_pocket icon_sns\"><\/span><span class=\"sns_txt\">Pocket<\/span><span class=\"veu_count_sns_pocket\"><\/span><\/a><\/li><li class=\"sb_copy sb_icon\"><button class=\"copy-button sb_icon_inner\"data-clipboard-text=\"OnfireJapan https:\/\/old2024.onfire.jp\/en\/blog\/thriving-in-japan-vulnerability-in-developing-deep-friendships-rae-anna-and-jef-3\/\"><span class=\"vk_icon_w_r_sns_copy icon_sns\"><i class=\"fas fa-copy\"><\/i><\/span><span class=\"sns_txt\">Copy<\/span><\/button><\/li><\/ul><\/div><!-- [ \/.socialSet ] -->","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>[\u82f1\u8a9e\u306e\u307f] Rae-Anna and Jef continue to converse about how to thrive in Japan as a follower of Jesus with a focus on vulnerability in building relationships. Japan is becoming more and more of an isolated and lonely society. Recently a young lady said to me (Jef) that she has become \u201cused to life with no-people\u201d\uff08\u4eba\u306e\u3044\u306a\u3044\u751f\u6d3b\u306b\u6163\u308c\u305f\u3002\uff09 [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":9,"featured_media":4230,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"_et_pb_use_builder":"","_et_pb_old_content":"","_et_gb_content_width":"","ub_ctt_via":"","vkexunit_cta_each_option":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[79,117],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-4240","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-blog","category-thriving-in-japan","et_post_format-et-post-format-video-en","et-has-post-format-content"],"acf":[],"featured_image_src":"https:\/\/old2024.onfire.jp\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/fundraising.jpg-copy2.png","author_info":{"display_name":"Rae-Anna Hedorin","author_link":"https:\/\/old2024.onfire.jp\/en\/author\/rae-anna-hedlin\/"},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/old2024.onfire.jp\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4240"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/old2024.onfire.jp\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/old2024.onfire.jp\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/old2024.onfire.jp\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/9"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/old2024.onfire.jp\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=4240"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/old2024.onfire.jp\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4240\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/old2024.onfire.jp\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/4230"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/old2024.onfire.jp\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=4240"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/old2024.onfire.jp\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=4240"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/old2024.onfire.jp\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=4240"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}